{ "schema_version": "uw.editorial_geo.v1", "article_index": "WAR-054", "catalog_id": "WAR-054", "language": "en", "headline": "Talking with a child about a missing loved one.", "description": "Talking with a child about a missing person: truthful limits, present care and roles without compulsion.", "master_filename": "ARTICLE_EN.md", "master_sha256": "ea3d5f9faaddd4383e4173e3b30a936735f3782dd13f6c981e88891610c5c023", "short_answer": "A child may ask about someone whose fate remains unknown.", "claims": [ { "id": "C01", "type": "historical_humanitarian_scope", "text": "ICRC considers family differences and excessive child roles.", "source_ids": [ "S1" ], "article_sections": [ "IV. Present care needs particular facts\r", "V. Different adults need not require choosing sides\r" ], "attribution": "Selected ledger scope", "limitations": "No actual fate/death/return/diagnosis/development/identification/legal custody finding.; Fictional Nina/Misha/Lena, ages/relations/country unspecified; examples not age stages/scripts/typical trajectory.; No child search/mediator/judge/replacement/sole adult support, compulsory emotion/faith/farewell/forgiveness/growth or parental blame.; No graphic disclosure/forced recount/recall/exposure/material/unsafe contact/publicity/touch/medicine/regime/protection change/clearance.; No universal safety/pause safety/perpetual availability/secrecy/access/flexibility/effect/complete triage or conversation resolves uncertainty; urgent protection/health priority.; General UNICEF and NHS scope not missing-person child protocol or evidence for phrase efficacy; history2013 no current legal process." }, { "id": "C02", "type": "general_child_war_information", "text": "UNICEF considers understanding, unknown matters, returning questions and professional attention.", "source_ids": [ "S2" ], "article_sections": [ "I. Uncertainty can be named without inventing an answer\r", "II. The child’s particular question matters\r", "III. Words depend on understanding rather than a chart\r", "VII. A repeated question needs no new examination\r" ], "attribution": "Selected ledger scope", "limitations": "No actual fate/death/return/diagnosis/development/identification/legal custody finding.; Fictional Nina/Misha/Lena, ages/relations/country unspecified; examples not age stages/scripts/typical trajectory.; No child search/mediator/judge/replacement/sole adult support, compulsory emotion/faith/farewell/forgiveness/growth or parental blame.; No graphic disclosure/forced recount/recall/exposure/material/unsafe contact/publicity/touch/medicine/regime/protection change/clearance.; No universal safety/pause safety/perpetual availability/secrecy/access/flexibility/effect/complete triage or conversation resolves uncertainty; urgent protection/health priority.; General UNICEF and NHS scope not missing-person child protocol or evidence for phrase efficacy; history2013 no current legal process." }, { "id": "C03", "type": "general_support_information", "text": "NHS and IFRC distinguish need and assistance tasks within their contexts.", "source_ids": [ "S3", "S4" ], "article_sections": [ "VI. A child need not search to prove love\r", "VII. A repeated question needs no new examination\r", "What this means in practice" ], "attribution": "Selected ledger scope", "limitations": "No actual fate/death/return/diagnosis/development/identification/legal custody finding.; Fictional Nina/Misha/Lena, ages/relations/country unspecified; examples not age stages/scripts/typical trajectory.; No child search/mediator/judge/replacement/sole adult support, compulsory emotion/faith/farewell/forgiveness/growth or parental blame.; No graphic disclosure/forced recount/recall/exposure/material/unsafe contact/publicity/touch/medicine/regime/protection change/clearance.; No universal safety/pause safety/perpetual availability/secrecy/access/flexibility/effect/complete triage or conversation resolves uncertainty; urgent protection/health priority.; General UNICEF and NHS scope not missing-person child protocol or evidence for phrase efficacy; history2013 no current legal process." }, { "id": "C04", "type": "authorial_truthful_bounded_conversation", "text": "Fact, uncertainty, promises, present care and appropriate understanding have different grounds.", "source_ids": [], "article_sections": [ "I. Uncertainty can be named without inventing an answer\r", "II. The child’s particular question matters\r", "III. Words depend on understanding rather than a chart\r", "IV. Present care needs particular facts\r", "V. Different adults need not require choosing sides\r", "IX. Another conversation can remain possible\r", "What this means in practice" ], "attribution": "United Wisdom optional ethical/practical proposal", "limitations": "No actual fate/death/return/diagnosis/development/identification/legal custody finding.; Fictional Nina/Misha/Lena, ages/relations/country unspecified; examples not age stages/scripts/typical trajectory.; No child search/mediator/judge/replacement/sole adult support, compulsory emotion/faith/farewell/forgiveness/growth or parental blame.; No graphic disclosure/forced recount/recall/exposure/material/unsafe contact/publicity/touch/medicine/regime/protection change/clearance.; No universal safety/pause safety/perpetual availability/secrecy/access/flexibility/effect/complete triage or conversation resolves uncertainty; urgent protection/health priority.; General UNICEF and NHS scope not missing-person child protocol or evidence for phrase efficacy; history2013 no current legal process." }, { "id": "C05", "type": "authorial_child_dignity_role", "text": "A child becomes neither searcher nor judge nor mediator nor replacement nor sole support; conversation purchases no publication.", "source_ids": [], "article_sections": [ "II. The child’s particular question matters\r", "IV. Present care needs particular facts\r", "V. Different adults need not require choosing sides\r", "VI. A child need not search to prove love\r", "VII. A repeated question needs no new examination\r", "IX. Another conversation can remain possible\r", "What this means in practice" ], "attribution": "United Wisdom optional ethical/practical proposal", "limitations": "No actual fate/death/return/diagnosis/development/identification/legal custody finding.; Fictional Nina/Misha/Lena, ages/relations/country unspecified; examples not age stages/scripts/typical trajectory.; No child search/mediator/judge/replacement/sole adult support, compulsory emotion/faith/farewell/forgiveness/growth or parental blame.; No graphic disclosure/forced recount/recall/exposure/material/unsafe contact/publicity/touch/medicine/regime/protection change/clearance.; No universal safety/pause safety/perpetual availability/secrecy/access/flexibility/effect/complete triage or conversation resolves uncertainty; urgent protection/health priority.; General UNICEF and NHS scope not missing-person child protocol or evidence for phrase efficacy; history2013 no current legal process." }, { "id": "C06", "type": "religious_philosophical_comparison", "text": "John11, Psalm42 and selected Aristotle retain tears, hope and feeling distinguished from character.", "source_ids": [ "S5", "S6", "S7" ], "article_sections": [ "VIII. Seven orientations form no age protocol\r" ], "attribution": "Selected ledger scope", "limitations": "No actual fate/death/return/diagnosis/development/identification/legal custody finding.; Fictional Nina/Misha/Lena, ages/relations/country unspecified; examples not age stages/scripts/typical trajectory.; No child search/mediator/judge/replacement/sole adult support, compulsory emotion/faith/farewell/forgiveness/growth or parental blame.; No graphic disclosure/forced recount/recall/exposure/material/unsafe contact/publicity/touch/medicine/regime/protection change/clearance.; No universal safety/pause safety/perpetual availability/secrecy/access/flexibility/effect/complete triage or conversation resolves uncertainty; urgent protection/health priority.; General UNICEF and NHS scope not missing-person child protocol or evidence for phrase efficacy; history2013 no current legal process." } ], "questions": [ { "id": "F01", "q": "Must return be promised for comfort?", "a": "No. Promises do not establish unknown facts; present care has its own grounds.", "claim_ids": [ "C04" ], "source_ids": [], "article_sections": [ "I. Uncertainty can be named without inventing an answer\r", "IV. Present care needs particular facts\r" ] }, { "id": "F02", "q": "Are age-specific phrases compulsory?", "a": "No. Examples require the child’s actual understanding, language and conditions.", "claim_ids": [ "C02", "C04" ], "source_ids": [ "S2" ], "article_sections": [ "III. Words depend on understanding rather than a chart\r" ] }, { "id": "F03", "q": "Must a child sustain every adult’s hope?", "a": "No. A child retains their own needs and becomes no adult’s sole support.", "claim_ids": [ "C01", "C05" ], "source_ids": [ "S1" ], "article_sections": [ "IV. Present care needs particular facts\r", "V. Different adults need not require choosing sides\r", "VI. A child need not search to prove love\r" ] }, { "id": "F04", "q": "Does one conversation guarantee no further questions?", "a": "No. A particular question may return; uninterrupted availability and effect are not promised.", "claim_ids": [ "C04", "C05" ], "source_ids": [], "article_sections": [ "VII. A repeated question needs no new examination\r", "IX. Another conversation can remain possible\r", "What this means in practice" ] } ], "sources": [ { "id": "S1", "author": "International Committee of the Red Cross", "title": "Accompanying the families of missing persons: A practical handbook", "url": "https://www.icrc.org/sites/default/files/external/doc/en/assets/files/publications/icrc-002-4110.pdf", "edition": "ICRC March2013, actual front copyright L8@P1; selected portions read19October2026", "read_scope": "Complete selected family communication L1553–1583@P52 and Burdening children L1609–1656@P53–54 actually read; front0–11 and TOC seen. PDF zero-based pages, printed pages51–53. Not whole handbook, linked studies, Boss book or internal references independently read. Screenshot tools returned string references without pixels; no visual inspection claim.", "role": "Narrow family views and child replacement/sole-support role warning; no child diagnosis/protocol/parental blame", "limitations": "No diagnosis/family therapy efficacy/universal communication resilience/hope equals denial, deterministic parental coping causes child reaction, parental blame, gender/country typologies, historical cases applied, consolation esteem benefit, age thresholds, current law/identification/notification/ritual procedure or forced acceptance without evidence. Adjacent complications/acceptance passages not imported.", "rights_status": "UNKNOWN", "rights_notes": "General copyright March2013 seen; specific licence unknown. Narrow own attributed idea/factual paraphrases only, no direct source quotations, handbook/page/box/table/expressive passage/images reproduction. Old external URL inaccessible; official canonical public PDF read, no bypass.", "read_date": "2026-10-19", "search_executor": "Codex web.run / branch A author" }, { "id": "S2", "author": "UNICEF Europe and Central Asia", "title": "How to talk to your children about conflict and war", "url": "https://www.unicef.org/eca/how-talk-your-children-about-conflict-and-war", "edition": "Page revision unknown; title20–22/main28–104 actually read19October2026", "read_scope": "Complete main28–104 read. Narrow37–38 known/heard,46 age appropriate/sensitive,51 admit unknown,81 returning questions,84 competent attention only. No linked stress/signs/activity guides/videos/images independently read.", "role": "General child-war conversation: attention to understanding, truthful unknown, further questions and suitable professional attention; not missing-person-specific evidence", "limitations": "No always child/adult reaction30, false safety/death guarantees40/50, media effect39/47, every reaction harmless41, compulsory calm/posture/in control103 or parental blame, charity/poster/positive comfort63–66, body language/breathing triage73/83, symptom/age profiles/wait/most normal84, breathing86–88, positive bedtime90, news blackout97/protection changes, exercise/distraction98 or mandatory check schedule104.", "rights_status": "UNKNOWN", "rights_notes": "Specific text licence unknown, public access not permission. Narrow original attributed idea/factual paraphrases, no eight-tip structure/checklist/page/expressive passages/images reproduction.", "read_date": "2026-10-19", "search_executor": "Codex web.run / branch A author" }, { "id": "S3", "author": "National Health Service", "title": "Grief after bereavement or loss", "url": "https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/feelings-symptoms-behaviours/feelings-and-symptoms/grief-bereavement-loss/", "edition": "Reviewed14July2026; nextreview14July2029; read19October2026local", "read_scope": "Entire main13–129 and dates133–134 actuallyread for039; no linkedpagesread", "role": "General professional and acute human attention, not child-specific assessment, disappearance confirms no death", "limitations": "No compulsory5stages/acceptance/calendar/2weekthreshold/inevitableease51/84, prolongedgrief111–125diagnosis/riskclaim, exercise/diet/focusinstructions, child/UKroute/foreigncontacts or individualcourse", "rights_status": "UNKNOWN", "rights_notes": "Own narrow attributed paraphrase; no symptomchecklist/stagetable/treatmentprogramme/image/page republication.", "read_date": "2026-10-19", "search_executor": "Codex web.run / branch A author" }, { "id": "S4", "author": "International Federation of Red Cross and Red Crescent Societies (IFRC)", "title": "Mental health and psychosocial support", "url": "https://www.ifrc.org/our-work/health-and-care/community-health/mental-health-and-psychosocial-support", "edition": "Current main overview read October 18, 2026; revision date of overview not established, news dates not substituted", "read_scope": "Complete main written overview, web lines 145–173; news feed, linked reports and videos not independently examined", "role": "Different support tasks in institutional context; no child organizer or universal competence/access/effect", "limitations": "Institutional programme overview, not a primary trial, verified local service, protection instruction or guaranteed individual outcome", "rights_status": "UNKNOWN", "rights_notes": "Brief own paraphrase and citation; no source article, graphic, photograph or video copied. Specific reuse licence not separately established.", "read_date": "2026-10-18", "search_executor": "Codex web.run / branch A author" }, { "id": "S5", "author": "Gospel of John / King James Version", "title": "John 11:32–36 KJV, short verse11:35", "url": "https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John%2011%3A32-36&version=KJV", "edition": "KJV displayed by Bible Gateway, read October 18, 2026", "read_scope": "All selected verses and KJV/Public Domain labels lines45–64; whole chapter not read or claimed", "role": "Primary religious tears scene, no compulsoryexpression or attachmenttest", "limitations": "No compulsory tears, affection test, belief requirement, clinical criterion or later-chapter outcome guarantee", "rights_status": "KJV_PAGE_MARKED_PUBLIC_DOMAIN; GLOBAL_JURISDICTIONS_NOT_ASSESSED", "rights_notes": "Brief attributed English fragment with own RU translation; actual cumulative English direct inventory separate, no chapter/page republication or worldwide PD conclusion.", "read_date": "2026-10-18", "search_executor": "Codex web.run / branch A author" }, { "id": "S6", "author": "Psalms / King James Version", "title": "Psalm42:1–5, short42:5fragment", "url": "https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalm%2042%3A1-5&version=KJV", "edition": "KJV displayed by BibleGateway, read19October2026local", "read_scope": "Complete selected49–56 and KJV/PublicDomain62–64 actuallydisplayed/read; not wholePsalm/Psalter.", "role": "Difficulty and appealtohope together, boundedauthorial comparison, no obligatorybothfeelings", "limitations": "No compulsoryfaith/hope/joy/tears/memory/fasting, diagnosis/treatment/punishment/fateprediction/guaranteedreturn/unknownascontest/clinicaloutcome or entiretheology imported.", "rights_status": "KJV_PAGE_MARKED_PUBLIC_DOMAIN; GLOBAL_JURISDICTIONS_NOT_ASSESSED", "rights_notes": "Brief attributed English fragment with own RU translation; actual cumulative English direct inventory separate, no chapter/page republication or worldwide PD conclusion.", "read_date": "2026-10-19", "search_executor": "Codex web.run / branch A author" }, { "id": "S7", "author": "Aristotle / W. D. Ross (translator)", "title": "Nicomachean Ethics, Book II, section 5", "url": "https://classics.mit.edu/Aristotle/nicomachaen.2.ii.html", "edition": "Internet Classics Archive displayed English version credited to W. D. Ross; modernisation date not established", "read_scope": "Title/translator lines 18–24 and complete selected section5 lines64–70 read; neighbouring sections26–104 displayed, whole book not claimed read", "role": "Selected BookII section5 feelings/virtues/vices distinction, own bounded paraphrase only", "limitations": "No entire ancient mean/habit/punishment/courage norms, universal fully chosen response, clinical control theory, legal responsibility judgement or justification of harm", "rights_status": "UNKNOWN", "rights_notes": "Own attributed paraphrase only, no new directEnglish quotation or wholework republication; specificlicence not established.", "read_date": "2026-10-18", "search_executor": "Codex web.run / branch A author" } ], "entities": [ { "name": "Child conversation", "type": "Understanding not age chart" }, { "name": "Unknown fate", "type": "No invented outcome" }, { "name": "Present care", "type": "Actual limited facts" }, { "name": "Child role", "type": "No replacement or sole support" }, { "name": "John,Psalm42,Aristotle", "type": "Bounded comparison" } ], "retrieval_limits": [ "No actual fate/death/return/diagnosis/development/identification/legal custody finding.", "Fictional Nina/Misha/Lena, ages/relations/country unspecified; examples not age stages/scripts/typical trajectory.", "No child search/mediator/judge/replacement/sole adult support, compulsory emotion/faith/farewell/forgiveness/growth or parental blame.", "No graphic disclosure/forced recount/recall/exposure/material/unsafe contact/publicity/touch/medicine/regime/protection change/clearance.", "No universal safety/pause safety/perpetual availability/secrecy/access/flexibility/effect/complete triage or conversation resolves uncertainty; urgent protection/health priority.", "General UNICEF and NHS scope not missing-person child protocol or evidence for phrase efficacy; history2013 no current legal process." ], "schema_org": { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@type": "Article", "identifier": "UW:WAR-054:en", "headline": "Talking with a child about a missing loved one.", "inLanguage": "en", "author": [ { "@type": "Person", "name": "Andrey Zarinsh" }, { "@type": "Person", "name": "Maria Evilkut" } ] } }