A difficult journey away from war may involve waiting, decisions without complete information, borders and separation. Arrival does not establish every task complete. This article distinguishes present resources, condition, documents and family contact without detailed replay. Read selectively or stop. Another person's successful route does not establish identical options available to you. No diagnosis, assigned status, legal instructions or dangerous routes are supplied. Children need not interpret intimate information or restore adult confidence. Dangerous return should not test love. Immediate danger requires suitable urgent assistance. One current question can receive attention without a complete account, compulsory forgiveness, heroism or a useful lesson in war.