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Requests, demands and agreements: three different actions with words

A request leaves the answer open; a demand needs grounds; an agreement contains terms accepted by its participants. Heard and accepted differ, while performance is checked separately.

Questions explored

Does I will try constitute a promise?

It can express an intention or conditional answer; clarify needed confirmation without inventing certainty.

Can someone understand a request without agreeing?

Yes. Understanding an action and accepting its terms are separate events.

How does a demand differ from a request?

A demand claims an obligation needing grounds; a request awaits an answer not yet predetermined.

When can a question be called agreed?

When its relevant terms are actually accepted by participants; describing one plan is insufficient.

Key distinctions

Identical wording can perform different actions depending on the subject and preceding exchange. (United Wisdom)

A request does not predetermine the response; the importance of an action does not remove refusal. (United Wisdom)

A demand needs identifiable grounds; the word must does not establish them. (United Wisdom)

An agreement concerns terms actually accepted by participants rather than a plan described by one side. (United Wisdom)

A conditional response should not be reported to a third person as an unconditional promise. (United Wisdom)

Historical political theory, duty ethics and a communication model perform different roles. (United Wisdom comparison of named primary works)

Confirming an accepted term does not establish future performance. (United Wisdom)

Limits of interpretation

  • Everyday scenes are fictional without verified outcomes.
  • No diagnosis, legal opinion or guaranteed communication success.
  • Threats/coercion call for no argument, refusal test or joint experiment.
  • Acceptance, performance and consequences remain separate events.
  • Comparisons are editorial; no universal consensus or effectiveness established.
  • UNKNOWN is not a licence; raw sources are not imported or vectorised.

Sources

  • Farewell Address — George Washington

    Actual selected primary reproduction read and compared with official MountVernon transcription; no complete anthology reading claimed.

    Source use: UNKNOWN

  • Leviathan — Thomas Hobbes

    Actual selected original passages on word counters, contract, gift, future promise and state enforcement read with adjacent context; not the complete book.

    Source use: UNKNOWN

  • Fundamental Principles of the Metaphysic of Morals — Immanuel Kant; translator Thomas Kingsmill Abbott

    Actual selected first-section passage read; no whole-book or contemporary experiment claimed.

    Source use: UNKNOWN

  • The Purpose of NVC — Center for Nonviolent Communication

    Actual official purpose/model sections read; linked books and complete training not claimed.

    Source use: UNKNOWN