Human Nature and Inner World
Multiple Versions of Yourself for Different Audiences, or How to Survive the Social Circus
Around our parents we are exemplary children, with friends at a bar we turn into stand-up comedians of dubious taste, and before our boss we become the epitome of meekness, exuding toxic corporate loyalty.

“I contain multitudes”
Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass, “Song of Myself,” Section 51.
What This Article Is About
Around our parents we are exemplary children, with friends at a bar we turn into stand-up comedians of dubious taste, and before our boss we become the epitome of meekness, exuding toxic corporate loyalty. An adult occasionally suspects: if my manifestations are so polar, is there anyone consistent inside, or is the entire personality merely a wholesale warehouse of masks for all occasions?
We approach this question from two perspectives. The first is the legacy of thinkers who pondered this long before the arrival of life coaches and pop psychology: William James, the Confucian Analects, the Apostle Paul, and the Quran evaluated shifting manners quite differently. The second is dry scientific data: metrics of role differentiation, fluctuations of personality states throughout the workday, cultural frame switching, and posturing on social media. Alongside this, we propose a way to draw a line between flexible contextual adjustment and total fragmentation. We clarify upfront: this is an authorial conceptual framework, not a standardized diagnosis; this article does not guarantee emotional monolithicity and does not replace therapy. Our example is purely a speculative illustration.
I. As Many Selves as Social Circles
If you behave differently around different people—relax, you are not broken; such an ordinary feature of social life was described long before us. Imagine a forty-year-old fellow: with close pals he cracks borderline offensive jokes, before his boss he is reserved and concise, and with his seven-year-old son he is as patient as a Tibetan monk. The comedy begins the moment all three collide at the same party: the son clings to his sleeve, the boss expects a corporate tone, and the buddy slaps his shoulder with an awkward in-joke. Which version of yourself do you pull out?
In 1890, William James formulated this plainly in The Principles of Psychology: each acquaintance holds a version of the person in mind. These acquaintances form circles, and the person presents different sides to circles whose judgment matters to them. Each crowd gets its own facade: an exemplary son swears like a pirate among rowdies, and we speak to our children quite differently than to club acquaintances, employees, or our own management.
For James, this is a norm of social survival, not a pathology. The social self is our image in other people's minds. Shakespeare played with this notion too: in the comedy As You Like It, the cynical Jaques proclaims that human life resembles theater, with people occupying successive roles. But there is a fundamental difference: Shakespeare's Jaques arranges these roles strictly chronologically by age—from the mewling infant to the decrepit elder—whereas James records different sides of a person presented to different audiences simultaneously. It is this simultaneity that interests us.
II. Discord or Division of Labor
Immediately after cataloging social personas, James draws a vital boundary: the critical factor is not the sheer number of roles, but how they coexist. The splitting into several selves can turn into agonizing discord if a person is in panicky dread lest one circle discover how he acts in another. Or it can prove to be a harmonious division of labor—like an officer who baby-talks his children at home, yet rules his subordinates with an iron fist on the parade ground or in a prison.
In our reading, what matters is not only the degree of contrast, but how the versions relate to one another. An affectionate parent and a stern commander resemble each other very little in mannerisms, but they have no need to hide: soldiers will survive knowing their commander is caring with his family, and his household will not faint upon witnessing his professional severity. Discord kicks in when one version requires a dense curtain of secrecy from another due to a frantic fear of exposure. From this follows our working criterion: can my versions calmly know about one another? We emphasize: James himself does not pose this direct question—this is our authorial deduction from his thesis.
James also reminds us that a person’s code of honor is their image before their reference group. An ordinary citizen during a cholera outbreak has the right to pack their bags and flee, whereas a physician or a pastor in James's example would consider such flight incompatible with their honor. A persona is tied not merely to tone of voice, but to accepted obligations. It is worth distinguishing versions along two axes: external manners and real commitments. And remember: James wrote in 1890 as a theorist and keen observer, not a laboratory experimenter. His inferences require empirical verification, and empirical research offers only partial answers.
III. The Village and the Court: Manner as Propriety
In the Confucian canon, the Analects (Lunyu), compiled by the Master's disciples, shifting behavioral registers is presented as a model of appropriate conduct, not hypocrisy. The tenth book of the treatise scrupulously documents these metamorphoses: in his native village, Confucius looked exceedingly simple and unpretentious, as if he were devoid of the gift of speech; yet in the ancestral temple or at court, he spoke readily and extensively, choosing every word with deliberate care.
With lower-ranking ministers he spoke plainly and freely; with higher-ranking ministers, gently but precisely; and in the ruler’s presence, he displayed respectful and reverent composure. Manner strictly followed social distance and context: fellow villagers, the ancestral temple, officials, the sovereign.
No duplicity was perceived here. The question "where is the real Confucius—in the village hut or in the palace?" is meaningless within this system: the exemplar is the one who is appropriate to the context. In our reading, unity rests on fidelity to concrete relationships rather than on a monotonous uniformity of reactions; the text neither measures nor guarantees psychological wholeness. Brevity among neighbors and diplomacy at court are merely two facets of respect for others.
There is no need to envision Confucius lying on a psychoanalyst's couch: Book X of the Analects is an observant field guide compiled by earnest disciples detailing how an exemplary gentleman bows at court and holds his tongue in the village, not an intimate diary recording inner turmoil. We have no idea whether the sage suffered a private identity crisis over his shifting demeanor, and we certainly cannot saddle an ancient text with modern notions of social selves. Tethering his conduct to William James is entirely our own authorial juxtaposition, offered simply to demonstrate how a kaleidoscope of manners can make sense through an overarching logic of propriety. This is hardly an established law of the mind: where James analyzes the psychology of social roles, the Analects merely outlines the external decorum of ritual fitness.
IV. "I Am Made All Things to All Men"
The Apostle Paul openly admits to skillful adaptation to his audience for the sake of an overarching goal, declaring it without the slightest trace of shame. In the First Epistle to the Corinthians, he describes adapting his approach among Jewish people, those outside the law, and the weak, in pursuit of saving at least some people.
Two nuances are fundamental here. First, the objective is stated publicly in a letter addressed to the entire congregation; Paul hides nothing in the shadows. Second, the line: while accommodating Gentiles, he does not nullify his obedience to God. The facade adapts, but the core remains motionless.
The Epistle of James offers an opposite image: someone wavering in faith is portrayed as unsteady. In the context of prayer, the letter compares such wavering to a sea wave pushed about by wind. Double-mindedness in James is a rupture of faith and purpose, not a difference between corporate and domestic intonations.
Comparing these texts yields a working dichotomy: flexible adaptation of appearance for a single purpose (Paul) versus vacillation in the purposes themselves (James). One can drastically change communication style while remaining integrated, or one can wear an identical stone face with everyone while frantically thrashing in one's core orientations. Our transposition to daily realities is purely an interpretation: Paul spoke of saving souls, James spoke of prayer, not of psychological self-presentation. Yet the essence is clear: wholeness is determined by an underlying vector, not by uniformity.
V. When Versions Contradict Each Other in Substance
Yet there is a scenario where tolerance ends: when one mask directly negates another, and the rift is concealed behind a fear of exposure. In the second surah of the Quran (Al-Baqarah, "The Cow"), characters are described who declare to the believers, "We believe," yet when alone with their instigators and evil companions, they swear they are truly with them, claiming they were only mocking the believers.
Superficially, this resembles Pauline mimicry. But the difference is catastrophic: with Paul, the language changed for an openly declared mission, whereas here the substance of the claims shifts entirely, and the words themselves are veiled in deceit. In our comparison, this resembles the discord described by James: the two versions cannot meet in the same room because one annuls the other.
The boundary is obvious: the Quran speaks of betraying faith and deceiving a religious community, where judgment over the mockers remains with God. This is an issue of religious hypocrisy, not everyday role-playing. A reserved manager letting off steam with friends on a Friday night is by no means a hypocrite of the Quranic kind.
From this juxtaposition we extract a core rule: stylistic adjustment (slang, intonation, social distance) is not equivalent to substantive contradictions (mutually exclusive promises, fabricated autobiographical facts, betrayal of core values). The former is social hygiene. The latter induces animal terror at the thought of a joint meeting of your social circles, and that is a cue to inspect specific claims and commitments. The fear of an overlapping meeting does not in itself prove deception: behind it may lie legitimate concerns for personal safety and the right to privacy.
VI. A Person Does Not Even Match Themselves
You are not only different around different people: you even manage not to match yourself across time, and blaming yourself for this is pointless. Michel de Montaigne, in his chapter "Of the Inconstancy of Our Actions," wryly observed that human nature is patched together of such diverse shreds that every piece plays its own game at every moment, and there is as much difference between us and ourselves as between us and others.
A contemporary study highlights this variegated patchwork. Didem Gundogdu and co-authors (2017) tracked 54 employees of a research institute in northern Italy over six weeks. Three times a day, participants reported their current states along the "Big Five" dimensions (extraversion, agreeableness, conscientiousness, emotional stability, openness), while wearable sensors tracked their actual face-to-face interactions. It turned out that the intra-individual variance of a single person across time exceeded the average differences between colleagues. This intra-individual leapfrogging was most pronounced in extraversion. In this sample, across all five personality states, intra-individual variability was greater than inter-individual variability. This is not a measurement of all humanity or of every facet of personality.
In the Italian office habitat, these behavioral swings looked just as lively: after encounters with two agreeable colleagues, an employee was statistically more likely to transition toward an agreeable state themselves—a tendency the researchers termed attraction, though opposite, complementary associations cropped up as well. Of course, this reflects an observational association rather than proof that colleagues caused the shift. The caveats of the data are thoroughly sobering: a modest sample of 54 people in a single organization, solely working hours, states coarsely split into high and low, and zero grounds for claiming causal effects, meaning one cannot brandish this as universal evidence that juggling roles is harmless. In our reading, Montaigne and these sociometric observations converge on the shared fact of our shifting nature, parting ways in their assessment: the philosopher drew a lesson in skepticism against hasty moral judgments, while the researchers simply mapped the ordinary dynamics of situations across the workday.
VII. What "Role Differentiation" Actually Measures
When psychologists investigate whether sharp divergence between versions is harmful, they run into a methodological cul-de-sac. The standard procedure is to ask an individual to rate themselves across a list of traits in the roles of student, romantic partner, son/daughter, friend, and employee. The variance of scores is proudly labeled "self-concept differentiation" (SCD).
Aleksandra Pilarska and Anna Suchańska (2015) decided to test the reliability of these metric yardsticks across three Polish samples of students and university graduates (336, 544, and 131 individuals aged 18 to 35). The results inspire little optimism: the role differentiation index correlated rather weakly with alternative methods of calculation (r = −0.27 and r = 0.27). Furthermore, the score was linked to how favorably the person evaluated themselves: the higher an individual rates their positive traits, the more monolithic their profile appears across roles. Because the questionnaire consisted entirely of seven positive traits, the researchers acknowledge that such an index may partly reflect self-esteem rather than merely the architecture of the self.
The link with an overall sense of identity also proved limited: in one sample, role differentiation accounted for a meager 4% of the variance in the sense of identity (even after controlling for trait levels), while in another sample, once related self-parameters were controlled for, the effect vanished entirely. The authors' conclusion is exceedingly cautious: these metrics do not necessarily measure what they claim to measure, actual effects of self-structure against background noise are trivial, and unequivocal conclusions are premature.
A curious detail: citing other literature, the authors suggest that identifying one's own facets spontaneously may foster a sense of specialization, whereas being forced into pre-assigned roles may evoke a sense of playing a "masquerade." As the authors summarize, our self-descriptions in questionnaires and our subjective experience of selfhood may well be two distinct phenomena.
VIII. Role Differentiation and Self-Consistency
In studies where an association between role differentiation and distress is nevertheless found, the bridging variable is a subjective feeling of inner inconsistency. Chaoyang Zhu and colleagues (2021) surveyed 158 Chinese retirees from Henan University (mean age 71 years). Participants evaluated themselves across five roles using 40 traits. The findings: the wider the dispersion across roles, the lower the well-being, the higher the anxiety and depression (correlations ranging around 0.3–0.4 in absolute value), and the weaker the sense of coherence (r = −0.34). In the statistical model, the link to well-being was partially mediated by the sense of coherence. Among younger retirees (around age 62), no such mediation was detected; the cross-sectional survey did not establish a causal mechanism.
The authors promptly declared high differentiation a hallmark of disintegration and imputed universal validity to this effect across both West and East. We are far more skeptical: generalizing a cross-section of 158 elderly Chinese university intellectuals to the whole of humanity is academic hubris. Correlation does not prove a causal mechanism, the sample is highly specific, and age cannot be simulated in a laboratory.
An unexpected wrinkle was contributed by studies on "Third Culture Kids" (individuals raised outside their parents' home culture). Magdalena Mosanya and Anna Kwiatkowska (2023) examined 399 such university students in the UAE (mean age 21 years). Those who integrated all their cultural layers into a unified composite experienced greater well-being. Those who kept their cultural identities apart reported lower well-being. Part of this relationship was statistically mediated by self-concept consistency (whether one behaves the same at home and in public). However, the authors themselves concede that this effect is statistically weak, noting the inherent limitations of a cross-sectional design.
Now comes the chief paradox: participants who isolated one culture as primary reported greater consistency, yet this strategy was not associated with greater well-being. The active suppression of other parts of the self was not an established fact. The researchers hypothesize that such monolithicity might be achieved through the amputation and suppression of living components of the personality. In our juxtaposition, this echoes James: counterfeit uniformity purchased at the price of internal asphyxiation does not equal healthy integration. But we emphasize: the study evaluated self-reported acculturation on questionnaires, not a Jamesian fear of exposure.
IX. Cultural Frame Switching: Benefits in Narratives, Costs in Numbers
When examining cultural frame switching (the involuntary shifting of accents, motor habits, gestures, and behavioral codes to match an environment), the scientific picture fractures. E. Garcha and colleagues (2025), in a pre-registered systematic review, analyzed 11 studies: six qualitative, three quantitative, and two mixed-methods.
In all eight studies containing qualitative data, respondents effusively praised frame switching: it assists in career mobility, friendship formation, family bonding, and broader adaptation. Yet in five of those eight, participants lamented a heavy toll—internal identity conflict, emotional exhaustion, and a sense of betraying oneself to meet the expectations of others. Meanwhile, quantitative measurements (totaling just five studies) drily documented an association between frame switching and reduced well-being: lower life satisfaction, higher psychological symptoms, and heightened perceptions of discrimination. That said, the relationships were heterogeneous, and in one of the two satisfaction measures, the confidence interval crossed zero. Positive effects were described in qualitative narratives; quantitative findings linked switching to poorer well-being, but these represent sparse, heterogeneous correlations rather than a definitive indictment.
The authors hypothesize that interviews may capture contextual flexibility in specific settings, whereas standard psychometric scales capture generalized well-being. This is a possible explanation for the discrepancy, not an established causal law. A meta-analysis could not be conducted due to extreme heterogeneity and sparse data; findings may have been confounded by age, education, generational status, and religion; publication bias cannot be ruled out. The takeaway: declaring frame switching an unalloyed blessing or pure poison is unjustified. It is simultaneously a social asset and a psychological expenditure. Participants described relational capital alongside the cost of suppressing parts of themselves. The parallel to James is our own: the review did not test his criterion nor measure the fear of being found out.
X. A Version for Everyone: Self-Presentation on Social Media
A dedicated branch of the vanity fair is the social media feed. Erica Bailey and co-authors (2020) compared the actual survey self-reports of 10,560 Facebook users with their digital footprints (algorithmic analysis of likes and status updates). Proximity between self-reported personality and the algorithmically predicted digital profile correlated with higher life satisfaction. The effect was statistically significant, yet microscopic: the maximum standardized coefficient was a mere 0.11. Furthermore, lower well-being was specifically associated with self-enhancement (when a person rated themselves more favorably on tests than their digital footprint indicated); self-derogation showed no such link to well-being.
Aware of the fragility of correlational findings, the authors staged an experiment. They initially planned for 200 students, but due to COVID-19 the laboratory was shuttered, shrinking the sample to 90 participants. For one week they posted content reflecting their authentic selves, and for another week they projected an idealized facade; the sequence of weeks was assigned randomly. A within-person comparison revealed that after the "authentic" week, subjective mood and positive affect were higher (effect size d ≈ 0.4), yet no statistically significant difference emerged for overall life satisfaction. Meanwhile, between-group comparisons after the first week yielded no significant differences at all.
An experiment on 90 undergraduates hardly grants license to herald authenticity as a universal panacea. What matters is something else: in the correlational data, lower well-being was tied exclusively to one direction of discrepancy—self-enhancement. And even then, it concerned rating oneself higher relative to an algorithmic model of online behavior, not the outright broadcasting of fraudulent biographical facts.
XI. Objections and Limits
These findings invite a cynical objection: if role differentiation repeatedly correlates with anxiety, wouldn’t it be simpler to adopt the posture of an uncompromising tank and act completely identical everywhere? We argue that science demands no such thing, and here is why.
First, study designs are limited: the link between a fragmented role mosaic and psychological stress is substantiated only by correlations in narrow cohorts (Polish young adults, Chinese retirees from a single university, international university students in the UAE). What comes first—whether role fragmentation triggers depression, or whether depression dissolves a coherent perception of oneself—remains unknown. Moreover, Bailey’s experiment on 90 students showed only a transient mood shift without altering general life satisfaction.
Second, the yardsticks are confounded: indices of role dispersion do not correlate well with one another and are entangled with baseline self-esteem. Furthermore, cultural psychologists remind us that the demand for a monolithic, unyielding consistency is largely an individualistic Western obsession. According to several cross-cultural theorists, members of collectivist cultures may naturally display lower cross-situational consistency in behavior. This is not an empirical marker of pathology or immaturity.
Third, barrack-style sameness does not guarantee wholeness. Students who anchored themselves to one primary culture reported higher consistency, yet that strategy was not associated with greater well-being. Suppressing aspects of oneself is a speculative interpretation advanced by researchers, not an empirically observed action verified in every student. Locking inconvenient parts of oneself in the cellar is not equivalent to becoming healthy.
And the paramount limitation of our conceptual framework: not one of the reviewed empirical studies directly tested William James’s distinction regarding the dread of exposure between social circles. Therefore, our working question—can my versions calmly know about one another?—remains a speculative conceptual lens, not a clinically validated psychometric test.
What This Means in Practice
Here are six voluntary steps for self-reflection derived from James's framework and the analyzed empirical data. This is neither therapy, nor a diagnostic test, nor an exhortation to strip off all social masks to the bewilderment of colleagues and relatives.
- Inventory of Circles. Identify 3–5 recurring social environments: the work chat, family dinners, an old circle of friends, a parent-teacher committee, social media. Label each with two or three concise descriptors characterizing how you present yourself there.
- Separating Form from Content. Distinguish mannerisms from facts. Vocabulary, sarcasm, the volume of your laughter, and the depth of personal disclosure belong to adaptive tuning. Conversely, contradictory promises, mutually exclusive core convictions, and falsification of biographical facts constitute a substantive fracture.
- The James Question. Run pairs of social circles through a thought experiment: if these people were placed in the same room and watched you interact in your other role, would you feel mild awkwardness or animal terror? Mild awkwardness is natural. Terror is a cue to inspect the situation, not an automatic admission of guilt or deceit. The right to privacy and realistic safety concerns must also be respected.
- Locating the Core Thread. Formulate what remains constant across all groups: uncompromised values, foundational obligations, and baseline ethics. If you cannot identify a single common thread, that serves as a cue for an honest conversation with yourself.
- Vector of Divergence. Check the direction of any gap: are you being reasonably authentic, or are you straining to embellish your facade? In the examined data, lower well-being was correlated with rating oneself higher relative to an algorithmic assessment of behavior; the opposite direction showed no such link. This is a statistical correlation, not an oracle predicting your destiny or proof that self-deprecation wards off depression.
- Legitimizing Context. If a substantive seam is uncovered, there is no need to stage a public soul-stripping. Sometimes it suffices to clarify the difference in context: at home you are not a corporate strategist, and at work baby-talk is rarely appropriate. Disclosing personal matters to others is entirely optional; let your guide be physical/emotional safety and concrete commitments that may need recalibration.
What not to expect: the goal of these exercises is not to turn you into a dull, predictable automaton. In studies of cultural frame switching, participants describe the practice as both an empowering resource and a painful cost, while the empirical data linking role differentiation to psychological harm rely on contentious measurements, remain strictly correlational, and cannot be generalized to every everyday switch between social roles. If a persistent feeling that you lack an authentic self or an unyielding fear of colliding circles causes distress and interferes with daily functioning, it is sensible to consult a physician or licensed mental health professional. If thoughts of self-harm arise, seek qualified professional help immediately, and in critical situations, contact the emergency services in your jurisdiction.
The protagonist of our fictional example at a joint gathering might experience a touch of awkwardness, and find that this is no panic-inducing exposure: sparkling banter, professional poise, and paternal care are simply different dialects spoken by the same individual who has nothing shameful to hide. An awkward evening, undoubtedly—but by no means a catastrophe.
Key Quote
“harmonious division of labor”
William James, The Principles of Psychology, Vol. 1, Chapter X: “The Consciousness of Self” (1890).
This fragment captures the crux: what matters is not the sheer number of roles, but whether one is compelled to erect impassable walls between them. Yet do not be deceived: James mapped out conceptual extremes rather than supplying a clinical cheat sheet with exact boundaries of normalcy.
Connections Between Traditions
| Comparison (Side A ↔ Side B) | Point of Intersection (Similarity) | Essential Boundary |
|---|---|---|
| James, The Principles of Psychology, Ch. X ↔ Analects, Book X, Ch. 1–2 | Adopting varied manners across different circles is a norm rather than a defect: in James, an individual reveals a distinct facet to each group; Confucius is pointedly unpretentious in his native village and scrupulously cautious at court. | James constructed a theoretical psychological model of the social self in 1890; the Analects records an external ritual canon of an exemplary teacher through the eyes of disciples, without speculating about his internal reflections. |
| 1 Cor. 9:20–22 ↔ Quran 2:14 (trans. Rodwell) | Superficial similarity of behavioral patterns: adjusting one's outward presentation to match a specific audience. | Paul openly states his missionary objective in an epistle to the Corinthians while remaining obedient to the law of God; the surah condemns covert substantive treachery—professions of faith alongside mocking cynicism behind closed doors. |
| Montaigne, Essays, II.1 ↔ Whitman, “Song of Myself,” 51 | Acknowledgment of internal multiplicity: an individual fails to match themselves from moment to moment, recognizing contradictory multitudes within. | Montaigne skeptically underscores the rashness of judging a whole human being by isolated acts; Whitman celebrates the polyphony of human nature as poetic abundance of being without moral condemnation. |
| Shakespeare, As You Like It, II.7 ↔ James, Ch. X | The human being is portrayed as a player performing a long sequence of social parts and roles. | In Jaques's monologue, roles are strictly distributed chronologically across stages of aging; in James, distinct social personas are enacted simultaneously before different groups. |
| James 1:8 (KJV) ↔ Pilarska & Suchańska, 2015; Zhu et al., 2021 | Internal division is linked to instability: in the epistle, a double-minded man is described as unstable in all his ways; statistical role differentiation correlates with decreased subjective well-being. | The Epistle of James rebukes the wavering of one who doubts during prayer; psychological studies present only correlational cross-sections in narrow cohorts, with the reliability of the differentiation scales themselves contested. |
| Montaigne, Essays, II.1 ↔ Gundogdu et al., 2017 | Inconstancy of the individual with themselves: empirical measurements show intra-individual variability over time exceeds average differences between individuals. | Montaigne synthesizes life observations and historical anecdotes; the study relies on self-reports from 54 employees about the previous half-hour, three times per workday over six weeks without warranting causal claims. |
| Paul, 1 Cor. 9:22 ↔ Garcha et al., 2025 | Shifting codes and manners to establish rapport with diverse groups; qualitative interviews reflect this switching as an asset for interpersonal relationships. | Paul subordinates his manner to a unified evangelical mission; in Garcha's review, quantitative metrics correlate code switching with psychological distress, a tension the authors leave unresolved. |
Primary Sources
The original article drew upon the specified excerpts from traditional texts and the full texts of six contemporary open-access research publications via Europe PMC. This adaptation preserves that evidentiary basis and its precise interpretive boundaries; it claims no novel exegesis of the entire works. Juxtapositions are authorial; similarity of themes implies neither an identical doctrine nor direct historical transmission. The epigraph and key quote are presented as concise fragments from the named English editions.
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About the Authors
Andrey Zarinsh — author and founder of the United Wisdom project. He explores themes of internal transformation, the unity of traditions, intercultural dialogue, and contemporary spiritual discipline. Instagram: @andrey.zarinsh.
Maria Evilkut — co-author of United Wisdom. Alongside her research work, she strives to test these concepts in practice and observe how principles of unity and mutual understanding operate in real life across people and cultures. Instagram: @ilkutki.
